Part 2: The Math Doesn’t Add Up

Why Traditional “Bro-Marketing” Principles

Kill Your Facebook Ads

Published on December 5th, 2018. Last Updated: April 8th, 2019.
by Amanda Bond

We have two choices.

We can take what we know about Bro-Marketing and play the #internettroll game all day long.

We’ll debate the ethics of bait-and-switch webinars, complain about upsell-downsell-upsell funnels, and whine about the gurus who’ve led us astray.

Or, we can put on our business owner pants, survey the current marketing landscape, and let the results drive us towards better decisions.

And honestly, that’s what I love about Facebook advertising:

At the end of the day, the numbers call the shots. Numbers tell us what’s working, what’s failing, and what’s about to implode.

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I’m going to show you

why most people’s Facebook ads aren’t working… and what “Bro-Marketing” principles have to do with it.

To be clear, we’re not just looking at our immediate return on ad spend (ROAS).

The “unabridged numbers” seen from behind-the-scenes of not just one but multiple businesses, a vantage point unique to people like me—consultants and service providers, tell us the whole story…

…and predict either scalable profitability OR pending doom.

These numbers are what first alerted me to the deeper problems with Bro-Marketing – the ones that aren’t quite so visible at first glance.

See, for most of us, obvious Bro-Marketing tactics make us feel a little icky.

  • Renting a Lambo for a day of flashy marketing videos?
  • Pushing engagement ads to “cheap” countries to bulk up page likes?
  • Posting photos of giant ass cheques?

Thanks, but no thanks. Gonna go take a shower first.

But when push comes to shove, I see most business owners default to subtler Bro-Marketing tactics that are fueled by the same “sales-first” mentality.

Stalking the comment section of competitor’s ads to poach prospects.

Promoting fast-action bonuses or urgent deadlines—without giving a second thought to the customer journey or your buyers’ best interests.

Creating a cold-traffic-to-webinar funnel strategy that pushes fast sales...even if your market would be better served by a different or slower process.

Regurgitating stock ad copy like “you gotta spend money to make money” or “if you’re not willing to invest in yourself, you’re not a real entrepreneur” (without considering brand alignment or, I dunno...empathy?).

Again, there’s no guilt or judgment here. Like I’ve said before, we’re all drinking from the same polluted pond. We’re strictly doing what’s been taught and modeled.

But let’s be clear.

Sleaziness is NOT the same as ineffectiveness.

And as much as you may care about honest, transparent marketing practices… you’re here to learn about the collapse of Facebook ad profitability.

So, you’re probably wondering:

“But, Bond—how *exactly* is sleazy AF Bro-Marketing connected to the mass failure of most entrepreneurs’ Facebook ads??”

…I thought you’d never ask 😉

Here’s the thing.

If Bro-Marketing is so inherently wrong, then why have these tactics stuck around for as long as they have?

‘Cause they DID work.

So, as business owners, we collectively plugged our noses, swallowed back the sour taste of misalignment, and launched funnels that reeked of toxic marketing.

  • ‘Cause it’s hard to argue with $0.50 leads.
  • ‘Cause it’s hard to turn down 25x ROI.
  • ‘Cause it’s hard to pass on six- and seven-figure launch hype.

Then, about two years ago, the machine stopped working.

  • CPMs (the cost to deliver 1,000 ad impressions) doubled, then doubled again.
  • Lead costs rose by the week.
  • ROAS began a steady, then precipitous decline—in almost every business, across the board.

And when “the old way” stopped working, the digital marketing space didn’t slow down for a second.

Mostly because they couldn’t afford to—their profit margins were already too narrow.

So no one stopped to wonder WHY the market was rejecting hardcore sales funnels and bucking trends that had worked for hundreds and hundreds of promotions. They didn’t stop to listen to these cues and pivot.


Marketers just doubled down.

More tactics!
More funnels!
More upsells!
More affiliates!
More sales!

When that didn’t work, they hired ad managers and paid traffic consultants, hoping they’d have the cure to what ailed their marketing efforts.

But none of it moves the needle. None of it restores profit margins, funnel metrics, or KPIs.


Because the very foundation of the accepted Facebook advertising strategy is rotten to the core.

This isn’t a time for bandaids, tweaks, or pivots.

This is a time to reconsider the way you approach every phase of your sales process.

If that sounds like too much work, I understand. So, good news: there are plenty of Bro-Marketers who are still selling Facebook ads courses that teach easier, sexier tactics. The tactics don’t work anymore—as I’m about to explain—but you won’t have to deal with learning a new perspective or rebuilding your marketing. So…I guess it’s kind of a compromise?

The Death of “Bro Marketer” Funnels

So, why aren’t the status quo funnels and ad campaigns working anymore?

A couple reasons. The simplest being that “blunt force marketing has a very short half-life”, as Andre Chaperon* says.

* If you end up purchasing the L-E-G-E-N-D-A-R-Y Sphere of Influence (SOI) via the link above —which this entire article flow is based upon—André will graciously send me a ‘thanks for the intro' cheque which fuels these 4-shot latte fuelled internet musings at no additional cost to you.

The twist-your-arm tactics stop working, and the market begins to wise up to the transactional nature of the funnel system.

Add that to saturation and an increasing number of advertisers on the platform. The level of NOISE on Facebook (and in general) has grown exponentially and unsustainably. In 2011, there were two people yelling about internet marketing tactics. Now there are two thousand—all vying for the same ad space, the same eyeballs, and the same wallets.

And, of course, all the people that have tried to game the system with Spammy McMarketson hacks are now getting played by an algorithm that’s getting smarter by the day.

Spammy McMarketson Hacks

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Buying email lists to create look-a-like audiences...
You’ll muddy the (Facebook Pixel) targeting and get crap results.
Running like campaigns to “cheaper” countries (way outside your target market)...
You’ll muddy your page engagement audience and get crap results.
Boosting clickbait-y articles for vanity traffic...
You’ll muddy your pixel and get crap results.

But the strongest argument against Bro-Marketing is the math itself.

Let’s look at the stats.

1. Bro-Marketing and the “lowest common denominator”

In the Facebook ads space, people have got this tunnel-vision focus on scarcity metrics, like cost-per-lead and cost-per-click.

They compete on volume. These marketers treat their potential customers like they’re running numbers through a selling machine.

The problem is that their selling machine is full of holes. So, for every 100 people they dump into the top of the funnel…99 fall out before they reach the bottom.

It’s a classic case of a “leaky bucket” business.

You constantly need more people to replace the leads you’re losing every day.

More, more, more.

And this dangerous focus on quantity over quality becomes the key failure point.

Because you’ve put yourself at the mercy of Facebook. When CPMs rise, your lead costs skyrocket, since you need such a large quantity of leads to generate a single sale.

So, in desperation, you look for the hacks, tactics, and general Bro-Marketer shortcuts to get attention at all costs.

It’s a vicious cycle.

When you optimize for these front-end metrics, you take your eye off the real target: increasing earnings-per-lead by creating real transformation in the lives of your customers and fuelling an ever-growing customer Lifetime Value (LTV).

Long story short, your white-knuckle focus on cheap lead gen sabotages the rest of your sales process from the very beginning.

2. Bro-Marketing and the normalization of basement-level conversion rates

Recently, I was privy to a conversation between some big name experts talking about sales page conversion rates. Their goal? 1-3% sales conversions.

This is why marketers obsess over lead costs.

They’re paying for one hundred (expensive) leads and only ever converting one of them.

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No one’s asking why 99 people opt-in to hear about what you do…and then change their mind by the time they reach the end of your funnel.

Again, at the risk of sounding like a broken record, this resignation is a direct result of drinking from the polluted pond of Bro-Marketing. We’ve accepted basement-level conversion rates, and ignored the 99%, because that’s “just the way it is.”

People are raising questions now because the costly symptoms are finally showing up.

It reminds me of Erin Brockovich and the contaminated groundwater debacle in Hinkley, California. For four decades, PG&E dumped chemical waste in the area—but no one raised questions until years later, when clustered cancer cases appeared.

Problems are rarely identified or taken seriously until the symptoms of living with them become costly enough.

And that’s why people are finally asking questions about the profitability and sustainability of Facebook ads.

Because the standard conversion percentage math isn’t working anymore (and there’s a reason why).

Travis Sago says it better than I do:

Ask a salesperson or funnel expert where you "lose" most sales and they'll tell you "at the end."

The million dollar reality is...

You lose most of your sales at THE BEGINNING.

The problem isn't the small conversion at the END of your funnel, it's paying for (in time, money or energy) and letting the wrong people in at the beginning of your funnel which is setting a torch to your cash.

Read the rest of his eye-opening conversion breakdown here. It’s not long, and it’ll be more than worth your time.

And then, if you want to understand the critical danger of accepting low conversion rates (and if you like fired-up rants as much as I think you do), read this short post.

The data doesn’t lie, people.

3. Bro-Marketing and the myth of revenue-driven marketing

You can’t open Facebook without being bombarded by someone’s income report, revenue numbers, or new launch record. It’s compelling. It’s addictive. It’s sexy.

But it’s all just vanity metrics.

Someone once asked Jeff Moore about the biggest business lie he’d ever been told.

He said: “If you can spend 50 bucks to make 100 bucks, you have a thriving business.”

Why is this such a problematic myth?

Because you don’t have a thriving business if it costs you $51 or more to fulfill on that sale.

  • A 7-figure launch is meaningless when you spent $950k on ads.
  • A $10K deal is nothing when you’ll have to shell out $9500 to your team.
  • A record month is meaningless if you can barely cover your overhead.

If you want to see a truly brilliant entrepreneur break down REAL profitability (and the investigation that ended in him closing a $2MM product), you need to read this. Ramit Sethi owns his ish more than almost anyone else in this online space, and “eavesdropping” on his gut-wrenching decision to kill a multi-million dollar program is super eye-opening.

Let’s look at an example for a minute. Watch what happens when you optimize for lead costs and aren’t able to control the profitability of the rest of your funnel.

In 2016, a friend of mine started running paid traffic to a $297 offer.

For a while, everything went swimmingly well.

100 leads @ $1.50 = $150
100 leads @ 6% conversion = 6 sales = $1,782
Revenue – Ad Spend = $1,632
Return on Ad Spend (ROAS) = 11.88x

Today, they’re STILL fighting to optimize for cost per lead (CPL), but everything’s changed—and now they’re losing money.

Today’s results:
100 leads @ $4.50 = $450
100 leads @ 1% conversion = 1 sale = $297
Revenue – Ad spend = $153 loss
Return on Ad Spend (ROAS) = 0.66x

Moral of the story?

When lead costs and CPMs rise, you must have a strategy in place to maximize profitability and maintain consistent conversion rates.

And if you don’t have a system for making that happen like clockwork?

Your days of success on Facebook are numbered, my friend.

“When the facts change, I change my mind. What do you do, sir?” – Winston Churchill

So, this all begs the question:

Are Facebook Ads dying?

Is digital marketing dead?
Is paid traffic a fool’s errand?

I don’t think so.

And I have thousands of data points, hundreds of documented campaigns, and dozens of case studies to prove my point (you’ll see them in a minute).

But I’ll tell you what’s dying.
  • Bro-Marketing.
  • Set-it-and-forget-it webinars.
  • Sleazy lead gen tactics.
  • Sales first, clients second.
  • Funnel hacking.
  • Race-to-the-bottom lead gen.

A shift is coming. People aren’t going to tolerate B.S. training and B.S. results much longer.

Especially when there’s a different way to run paid traffic—a way that honours profitability, honours customers, and honours your own freaking morals.

The only catch?

For this new approach to make sense, you have to take the word “funnel” out of your vocabulary.

Because if you’re still thinking in terms of funnels, you won’t be able to make this method work. They’re completely incongruent.

But if you’re able to adopt the new paradigm that I’m about to show you, it will change everything for you: your ads, your sales process, your results, your client relationships, and your business.

It will change all of that—forever.

  1. The shortcut sales hacks that used to work aren’t working anymore. And we need more than a bandaid.
  2. Bro-Marketing is dying—because it markets to the lowest common denominator, it settles for basement-level conversion rates, and it focuses on revenue over profit.
  3. Facebook ads AREN’T dying…but they’re about to stop working for anyone who relies on hard-core lead gen funnels.